Loosing your spouse or special friend is never easy my husband passed away at an early age of 49 we only had 221/2 years together. once all the guest leave and her home is quiet she will need a special friend its not what you say but that you care enough to break her silence.after 20 yrs there are still days you have moments and memories flow down your cheeks .grief has no time line it takes as long as it takes . Praying God gives her peace that only He can give .God bless you for words of kindness that speaks and gives her encouragement.

I know how she feels. I lost my husband to lung cancer in Oct 2018